For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

Lulu, I must have missed your earlier post. I think I might have been updating and didn't even see it until now. No, I have not left like this before. It is MAJOR for me...MAJOR! Yes, my BFF knows everything. She's the furthest away from me, but we are very close.

bluerain, ha ha...too bad I didn't think of the pool boy comment. ; ) And I still haven't asked about the interview.

I think I'm going to wait until next Tuesday to say something to H. And then I'm going to ask him to spend the night at our house on Thursday bc we (girlffriend and I) are leaving Thursday night to stay in a hotel. We have to be at the airport really early. What do you think of me waiting until Tuesday to talk to him?

He has to work on Friday, but my mom is planning on coming over to watch our DD. The reason I'm not just taking DD to my parent's house is bc they have 4 dogs and one is a great dane. They get all hyper when DD is there. It's just easier for my mom to come to our house. So I guess I'll tell H that my mom will watch her on Friday and Monday (while he is working) and he can watch her on Saturday and Sunday. I'm not asking him to take time off work. That would turn into a fight. I pray that he keeps our DD here in our home bc that is what's best for her.

Does this sound like a good plan? Should I tell him sooner/later? Say anything different? I think he's going to be surprised that I'm actually going. I'm even surprised.