I wanted to add that when she's gotten her things out of the house....and she starts calling you to help her with something in the apartment.....you are not her plumber or electrician. It will come natural for her to ask you to fix something that is not working....or to screw in a lightbulb. Be prepared and have the numbers ready to give her. Tell her that you can't do it but the number to the plumber is..... or your've heard that _______ is a good repairman.
She needs to "miss" you!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
