@Kettricken - I don't want to put too fine a point on this, but

(a) I'm on a white ship drifting through a fog, floating on the tide, and

(b) according to my journal, 6 years ago today I watched a feral dog munching on a human arm and, later that night, slept through a rocket explosion that vaporized a 19-year-old kid in his cot about 200 meters away.

So, ah, no - not a gambit. It's divorce - it ain't life or death. WAW got the lay of her life. Bully for her. Everyone deserves to go to the moon.