Tal,

I was thinking are your instincts telling you anything here or are you too upset to get a good read on them?

I mean most of the time you have been right on about when he is telling you the truth about things or something is going on haven't you?

Just sitting here wondering if you were able to get in touch with any of those or the emotions are playing too much riot right now.

Another thought I had is at times it has worked for you to get through to him to go off on him hasn't it?

I know that doesn't work for me. But was thinking at times he has responded to that, maybe that was further back when he needed to be convinced that you DO care about him and want to work your marriage out.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"