Yep, you're right...... F HIM!! That's why I love ya', Brooklyn!!!
My mother called me this morning to see how I was doing. Apparently my brother had told her I was going through a rough patch. Well, now she's all upset and saying that I am "clinging" to him, and how I will never have another man love me if I don't stop, etc....... I tried to explain that I am not clinging and doing my best to move on, but that this is a process I am going through and I am not somebody who can just say "Oh Well!" at the loss of a 28 year relationship. That's just not my nature! She doesn't get it. She said she had no problem moving on from my Dad after they D'd after 30 years M. (She left) I know she loves me and is worried about me and in-patient for me to get over it already (see where I get it!!!????). But, I sure wish I had a Mom that I could go to and cry on her shoulder and she could just pat me on the back and tell me that she understood and that I would be OK!! The whole conversation with her made me feel like "Yep, I'm an emotional basket case!" ...... Gotta love dysfunctional families.....
Well, I'm off to buy some new pants (I've shrunk out of all my work pants....WooHoo!!!), and them I'm off to Cha-Cha class!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
