Frankly RSF, I think this is a strange question from you, considering you wife has done possibly the ultimate detachment and look how you now want to work it out......
BINGO!!!!!
Wow! Just when I think I have it all figured out someone brings me right back to reality!!
I'm afraid to let go people. There I said it. Tough guy here is afraid. I'm afaraid like he11 to let go. Problem is I don't know wwhy I'm afraid or what exactly I'm afraid of. I have no doubts about my ability to carry on with life in every way. Career success, relationships, whatever. I feel perfectly confident about those things but still I'm afraid. At least I'm pretty sure that's it. It's illusive. I'm working on it though.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
