Just reading what you wrote there is a good possibility that kml is right. He isn't talking to her NOW! Obviously he was, as you are looking at proof.
The thing is from what I have read here in piecing it seems several of the S said they broke it off before they actually ended all contact.
Since he didn't know you have proof that he was still talking to her, I might try looking at this like Shiny told me on David lying about OW. That he was still talking to her, he was afraid if he admitted that he hadn't stopped it before September that it would cause him problems with you and he doesn't want to have any problems with you two working out your marriage. He just wasn't up to totally ending it before then.
I really don't know what to say other than don't do anything while upset. That is when I always do the none thinking, let runaway thoughts run the show.
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