DID XH M OW or not??

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, ((peace)).

I don't know the exact age of the OW, but I believe she may actually be older than STBXH. When I did the reverse lookup on the phone number, it gave her age to be between 50-54. I know she has been D'd from the minister for 20 years and has several grown children........ she's a paragon......an female STBXH.

And she did not supposedly get with STBXH until the beginning of this year when he told me he wasn't going to come home to "try again" as agreed after the 6 month seperation....... I know he had dated her (her sister was trying to fix them up from day one), but they "didn't get serious" until after we were "done" (or rather he was "done" with me). I believe she is why STBXH didn't keep his promise to try again. The Secretary he had an EA/"one time" PA with was 28. I think he hoped to get with her, but she just did him and dumped him...... but here was this other woman who was available so he continued on his merry way (away from me). So, now he's with her and he can say he "didn't leave me for another woman".....he gets to pretend he's the stand up guy..... He says GF doesn't know about the secretary, and my S18 says that they have all "hung out" together!!