I think the backslide happened when I got sick. He got all sulky and said he felt cheated, said he was going to walk out of the hotel on me that night, even though I was sick as. I think he really felt I did it on purpose which has no logic to it whatsoever, he even said he thought I was drunk which I wasn't. Even said he wasn't sure if he was prepared to keep working on our R or just to give up. WTF I thought.
WTF? indeed. It is really disturbing that he would consider walking out on you when you were sick. Is this behavior new? I have heard that this is common with men who are abusive. Do you feel like you reached understanding about what happened?
I really sorry this happened to you. Food poisoning is bad enough without the other BS.