Thinker - does your W have any sort of family history involving anger or abuse? Could something like that be underpinning her reaction?
Edit: the fancy-pants word for what your wife is doing when she sees an event so radically differently from how it happened is 'cognitive distortion'. You might talk to the C about how to handle it when your W is in middle of one.
Last edited by Dia; 10/16/0901:07 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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