The only thing I really said to defend myself was to say "If you have a dog, a really good patient dog, and you kick him, and put your fingers in his eyes, and take away his food, and pull his ears, until finally he barks and shows his teeth - does that mean that the dog is violent"
She got completely incensed and cried that I was trying to turn this all around on her and call her abusive.
The C said "That sounds like you feel like you are a victim. Abuse doesn't happen when someone feels strong, only when they feel like they are a victim"...
After that I shut my mouth.
I have a private session booked with the C, but not until tuesday. He's not available until then (I tried)
Last edited by Thinker; 10/16/0901:08 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.