Do you think, deep down, that you were the best man for her? If you do, then whoever else she finds will pale in comparison and she'll eventually realize it. That should give you peace.
I can't....shouldn't answer that. That's rationalization....a form of denial and wishful thinking. If I was, she would have chosen a method to stay. She did not and that is her life choice. She decided that I WASN'T the best man for her.
We men here don't the ability to understand how the WAW feels. And, understandably so. After being married, for most men here, it is incomprehensible to think that the woman they walked down the aisle with would feel so out of love or unattracted to them that they would lower their lifestyle, throw away their home, lose 50% of the time with their children, destroy their family and just walk away. They do it, everyday. Just look around us. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
