Arwen, I am really sorry to hear how that went down for you, and I appreciate you sharing. My W has told me that she doesn't love me and that she needs to care for herself for the first time in her life (never been on her own and single - was 20 when D was born). I don't know what else to do but take that at face value right now without further pushing her away, and causing her to not trust me.
What do you all recommend. There could be OM (or OW), but in not knowing, do you all just suggest that I end it? I am aptly named here, because I contiue to be confused on what to do. Been on this site for a couple of days...and I need to read DR