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[sage]

But I have tried several times recently to initiate conversations that he stopped short. Last night, when he called from work, I straight-out asked him why he wasn't talking to me anymore. He said that it was because we haven't spent that much time together and that we'd been doing a lot of family things when we do. I said, that we had the same old schedule we'd always had, but that we'd had plenty of alone time where we could have talked and I had tried to get him to open up a couple of times but he seemed like he was shutting down any meaningful conversation.

Maybe he meant that he needed more alone time with you (without R talks) before he could feel comfortable with more R talks?

IOW, have you guys scaled back on the non-R-talk-but-we're-alone-and-having-fun time since he moved back? My h seems to need a lot of quality time together for him to feel good...whereas for me a good R talk = QT

Sage