Oddly, she sought me out for more R discussions today and we had a pretty good talk. I can tell that she is stressed over this as she was teary and I wasn't for a change. I think she is noticing some of my changes but she still doesn't think they will stick. One thing that she really seems to be struggling with is that she is hurt that it had to come to this for me to make changes. Just trying to stay positive and accept that I have no control over what she does.
