I like BobbiJo's idea. Very few people reconcile successfully, so in general people just probably don't know how to react......what the protocol is. You are very creative, Ali. I'll bet you and BF can come up with some kind of really fun theme for a party that your friends would have a GREAT time attending.
In other news....., I just found out from a reliable source that my H was "dumped" last weekend by another woman --- this is the 2nd time he has been "dumped" by a woman he was dating in the last 6 weeks. I thought perhaps I was the only person he showed his irritable, depressed persona to, but it's looking as though others may be picking up on it too. I wrote about it on my thread.