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You are totally right t. Maybe I just needed to hear it right now... LOL


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
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OH!!!! I forgot about the best part of my day! We have this lady who comes once a month and does a chair massage for 15 min slots. We talk all the time and she has been going through a similar situation to mine.

So, I did my 15 min today and she gave me a gift card for a free 1 hr massage! I was so excited. Doesn't take much to make me happy these days. LOL It says Congratulations on it.... haha. For surviving this ordeal.....


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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There is kindness in this world........


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Yes, there is. Lots. My friends here, friends at work, and my kids at work too. I walked in this morn to get coffee from the cafeteria and one of my girls was in the breakfast line and says "Ms. C, you look so pretty today!" LOL. I just looked normal.... but I do love my kiddos and job. There is def kindness in my world.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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Hey S, of course Tinkerbell still pisses you off. I dont even know her and I want to kick her ass. Ok, sorry, got a little carried away.

Remember this is a process. While I see you are doing really well, there are going to be times you are feeling different things.

As far as your xh, I'll get to him after I finish with her.

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Glad you`re seeing so much kindness around you-it says a lot about you too!

and a lot about all this pain and suffering that goes with this territory-we are more attuned to the wonderful in the world because of it.

Have a great weekend.

Keep counting your blessings!

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SoCo,

So jealous about that massage!!!!!

You sound pretty grounded. Just keep on, God will continue to bless you.

And hey, the og…

Not worth your head time…



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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Hey Dummy !

What's up ?

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Hey baby!! Dropping the dummy on me here huh? What up?

And THANK you guys so much for your kind words. I'm not talking myself right now! Awesome! It helps to have others remind me that I AM in fact normal and human... LOL Okay, be quiet Mach... no smart remarks about that!

B! You know I've got your back anytime too girl! I don't really know how to fight and I'm from the 'burbs not Brooklyn, but I can try my best!!! lmao


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"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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Kindness attracts kindness. I'm not surprised it's coming your way.

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