Hey I was just reading up on your thread and wanted to comment of the R discussion area with your H. I was thinking of doing this from a male perspective as in a way I can understand where he is coming from. Mind you I could also be miles off mark here so take it with a grain of salt.
From a male perspective we normally tend to approach life as a series of projects and from my experiance we have a tendancey to only concentrate on one project at a time. Now a project can be career, building something, whatever. I have a tendancey to concentrate on one thing and put everything else on the backburner - this is one of the areas my wife definately finds annoying. Also geneally we are pretty break/fix, of something is broken we fix it then put it behind us and then go onto the next project. Im not sure if this is making sense.
So looking at this from your H's perspective he had a project that he had moved into gear about - that is fix the marriage (or fix he damage he had done). To do this he got his tools (new Relationship awareness) and did what he thought he had to do. Now he may see that moving back home has 'fixed' the marriage and he will now put that project behind him and look for the next one.
Looking back through my past this is a way that I have seen myself acting many times and also I have seen other friends of mine acting as well. I could be completely way off mark and well he could just be tired from movingh home and having a break (lol).
Anyway from my perspective your H could in his mind have finished the project (marriage is fixed) and he is now looking for the next one.
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
