Part of me thinks that is a great idea but then part of me thinks it is bad because of the kids. I love him..I do. But Stronger..really..I just do not know how to get through to him. Really..when he left and came back the other night I just feel like it was a cry for help. It seems like a big game. What do I do? Should we stop hanging out as a family? Should I give in to him when he wants to cuddle? I am trying to think of a big 180 I could do to get his attention..I just do not know.