Went Dark, What Now? (other than GAL)

[GH31]

G'day MTNSprit,

Good to hear from you.

Any suggestions on deleting someone from FB? Don't they get a notice that I've done that?

They don't get a notice that you've done it. I've deleted a whole host of "friends" from my Facebook account and not experienced any bad consequences as a result.

Thanks for the recommendation to delete her from my phone.

You're welcome, just get it done. It might feel weird at first but that's OK. For example, when I cut up my credit cards a few weeks ago it felt weird and I went through a very mild kind of "mourning" for a few days but I'm very glad I did it.

I'm in graduate school for Acupuncture and have little to no resources, so GAL is requiring some ingenuity d/t financial constraints!

MTNSpirit, if anyone can do it on this board you can.

You have had the guts to do what many betrayed men on this board need to do, but what few actually do. For that reason there's no doubt for me that you can GAL - volunteering is a fantasic idea.

BTW, Puppy here is awesome as is Coach and Phoenixdeux.

One of Coach's favourite quotes is from Admiral James Stockdale of the US Navy who was held in solitary confinement for 7 years in Vietnam. When asked what allowed him to prevail, this is what he answered:

"You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be."

You have confronted the savage and brutal facts of your reality. Going dark will give you the perspective to get your war mind working and come up with an appropriate plan.

Get to it mate. Puppy, Phoenixdeux and Coach will look out for you here and have great advice.

GH31