And BBJ, I would gladly give you a starbucks. I'm still a big fan of sb.
Just had a phone call from my MIL. seems H told her about my thoughts of moving... and she just laid it on super thick about how I'm being immature and that I should stop only thinking of myself and think of my daughter. That if anything I should focus on changing me instead of trying to change H (which I'm not trying to change H. I told him what I needed from him.. when he was in his all talk no action mode.. and he has done NONE of the things I needed).
Crazily enough even my Mom, who doesn't know about my thoughts of moving, has told me recently how I'm making a huge mistake and she doesn't want me to do everything wrong like she did. In the end I'm sure she would help me but it feels baffling that in the end these two women think that I'm messing or that I've messed everything up.
Toronto is a nice place to live but it seems most of the people are commuters.. there are a lot of single or people without children so it's not an ideal place to raise her.. but there are lots of things to do if you've got the funds to do it.