I totally agree with Bluestar, Karen. He is making a paper trail of all of the times that "things are forgotten" and that you are "obstructing him on Tuesdays" and that you allowed the kids to get sunburned, etc. etc. etc. He's got it in emails and will try to use that in court with other stuff (whatever he can TWIST into something that shows you are a bad parent). You need to do exactly what bluestar said. HE is the problem, time to get that paper trail going.
