I must be part man. Because I tend to side with the men LBS about getting some balls (I want mine to be sparkly though so I still look somewhat lady like) and just saying enough is enough. If you choose not to respect that is fine but stay the hell out of my life.
You know, when my 1st attny left the firm I was given a new attny. My first attny was a woman who I loved. My 2nd attny was a man and he and I mostly spoke over the phone and e-mail. When he saw me he started to laugh. I asked him what he was laughing at and he said YOU. I said why? (Just for the record he is a very nice man and not creepy at all) and he said when I read your messages you come across as so direct and strong in your stance and in walks this tiny little lady that looks like a kid. For the record I am 34, just over 5 feet and weigh 105 pounds.
So maybe I am part man because I get what the dudes are saying. Now, I didnt get here overnight but eventually I did. I am not happy, sad... just in the present in a good way. Who needs all this BS? Who needs TWENTY months of this BS? Not me.
I honestly do not think I could ever trust my H again. Not with something big or little. He has asked how he can earn my trust back and I told him its doubtful you could. He was supposed to follow through w/something very small last week and still has not done it. Actions do speak louder than words. I wont say a word about it because then he falls back to his "nothing I do is good enough" or "I was trying to give you space" (a.k.a things are going better with GF).
CityGirl <----did not just fall off the turnip truck
