Well, I'm feeling okay today. Kind of free like a big stress has been lifted. He called me this morning, and I told him about s's schedule for this weekend. He asked how everything was going. I told him pretty well. I asked about the pmt he owes me on Friday, and he said he "probably" wouldn't be able to give me anything, but he will "see what he can do". Ummmm okay. I know what you can do! Get a job
So simple yet so difficult. I am going to do my best to stick to a strict budget b/c I am sick of asking him for money. He feels like he can control me with the child support money. I'm not going to ask anymore. It's either pay up or I will be keeping documentation and after a few months I will turn it in. His choice. I would rather work 2 jobs if I had to than feel like I am constantly asking him for anything right now. He can work/not work/ whatever/ and go drink and tatoo his money away with og. But there will be consequences eventually.
The money thing does really irritate me, but overall I am feeling pretty good.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Hey S, I am glad you are feeling somewhat of a relief. I know this isnt the way you wanted your life to go.
Please make sure you document everything. Speak with your lawyer about this, Sweetie. Dont let your pride get in the way of him having to support his children.
The court should force him to get a job. Dont let this go for too long, ok?
Hey B, I won't. I am going to keep a spiral and document what he doesn't pay and the kids expenses. That's what my L told me to do. I will only let it go long enough to build up some evidence. I won't let him just walk from his responsibilities, but I'm just going to kind of "let go" of the pissed offedness about it. LOL Make sense???? Probably not. Haha.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Ahhhh! T, you scared me! I was so used to talking to myself....
So EXh just got his phone back I guess and text me twice about the kids schedule and tried to call once this afternoon so I called him back. We are sitting there having a conversation and after several minutes I hear og's voice in the background.
I let him go. Ug. That still pisses me off, especially with the fact that he denies being with her. Does it make me crazy that it still pisses me off? Two texts were about the kids, and one said I miss you. You miss me while your girlfriend is there? Really? I wouldn't have called him back had I known she was there.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
