Oh and I know it may sound as if I am being defensive but I am not..I truely and sincerley appriciate all of your advice. When it comes to my husband, he is babied and I am NOT going to baby him anymore, HE is a grown man with a family and a wife and he needs to take responsibility for that. I deserved to be loved and appricaited. I am a good wife. I cook, clean, take care of the bills and make his life easy..too easy sometimes. I took him back 3 years ago when he was accused of being with my best friend, I made it very clear to him that if he ever cheated again that would be the end. I was too nice last time. I am ALWAYS too nice! I am a pushover but I do not want to be that way anymore. It is NOT okay to cheat. No one deserves that! No one deserves to be lied to..It is not okay to call someone names and make them feel bad about themselves..Sorry I am ranting but I am just saying all the things I have always wanted to say to him..like okay H you ARE NOT GOD!!! For too long he has been on a pedastool but NO MORE!!!!
