I think dreams are good. It helps us realize that life can be good after this crap. We have to look to our future and that may mean with or without our spouse.

Hoping for a brighter future is something we all hope to gain. Life is too short.

I wonder what these Ml'er dream of? Do they eventually lose all hope once they realize what they have done.....?

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11