So, I am not the only one who has had that 'I think he actually hates me' feeling. Because sometimes, when my H lists my failings it sounds more hate than love. Especially in the immediate bomb period. I kept wondering: if I am such a monster why don't you ride off into the sunset?
I think that it is them they hate and us they project to. In a very infantile way, like a small child frustrated that plummets his mother while crying 'I hate you, I don't love you any more' You know children are cruel.
BTW, has someone read the chapter in Hillary Clinton's books where she describes what she felt when she found out? I could have written that passage!
BTW, Tal, are you sure Wolfie has not been talking to my H? That is SO like his style of conversation...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
