Letting go... I doubt that many of us know what that really means, otherwise maybe we wouldn't be in this forum. I say this with all due respect to those who are here offering their own experiences and suppport even though their sitches are working out.
Maybe it's when we can get to a point when it's not about us, what we want and our own pain. When we can see our spouse's perspective as much as, if not more than our own. When we can be free to live and enjoy the limited time we have without the fear anymore.
I don't think things like this happen by chance. We are here for a reason. We're here to grow for the better. I think we are. But it's a slow process. Maybe it's slow because we need to learn to become consistent, otherwise our changes will not stick. Faith and patience Thinker. It's a long road.
Although it's your choice in the end, remember what your goals were when you started this journey. I assume it was to fight for your wife, marriage and family.
