Not sure but this can't be a unique occurrence, and I really don't see it mentioned much on this site. The LBS goes through so much crap with the WAS that they in turn become the WAS, it can't be unheard of that a person reaches their own personal threshold of tolerance with a WAS that treats them extremely poorly. The psychology isn't unique for just one person, repeat the same circumstances & environment and produce the same results for the other person and presto! You have 2 spouses running in opposite directions from each other, db'ing can't exist in a vacuum.
