W can't break EA - not sure how to handle it

[Kettricken]

There's not a lot you can do about it, beyond letting her psych know, which I don't think is out of line under the circs.

I guess I was responding to a certain tone of justification/rationalization on your part ... "she did fine up 'till now .... it doesn't really sound like that bad of an idea ...." (I paraphrase). This IS a bad idea. Going off cold turkey is a TERRIBLE idea, regardless of her status before.

All you can do, really, is be watchful. Not paranoid, but *objectively* watchful. Educate yourself about the possible ramifications of her choice, don't rely on what we say. In order to pull that off, you can't allow *yourself* to slip into enabler mode. IMHO.