I would also recommend "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Your wife is obviously not getting some needs met at home. It could be she thinks she has been communicating them to you for some time, and you have just not been "getting it". Men & women really do communicate differently...


Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed