As for LRT and what to say... you still don't get it.
You think a few words mentioned here or there with your wife is going to spark her interest.
This isn't about verbal communication, it's about body language and the body language you are communicating to her is that you are weak, insecure, low value, etc.
When are you going to start doing things that communicate the opposite? When are you going to start believing in yourself?
The biggest thing that kills attraction is when you have a NEED for your wife's validation, ie. "What to say to her?" You don't get it, you don't have to say anything, you communicate via body language that you're ok.
You are sitting around waiting for some magic spell to make your wife love you, laugh at your jokes, make love to you again, call you repeatedly and give you tons of attention, etc. etc. etc. If she did any of these things you would feel great!!! Let me ask you then, why can't you feel great if she doesn't do these things - why do you need her to make you feel good about yourself?
She's in a bad mood, or she isn't talking to you, or she isn't giving you sex, she's talking about her new single life, maybe she's talking about other men, having sex with other men, not sleeping with you and it makes you feel insecure. Do you see this? Why are all of these things triggering your insecurity? This is what killed the attraction, it's so important for you to get this and know it.
I haven't read your entire thread yet, has she been unfaithful, did she have an EA/PA?
