Now that im doing this technique, what do I tell her if she says that she is glad im moving on with my life? Do I agree, say I still dont want to get a divorce, or say nothing?
"I'm sorry you feel that way, but I have decided that this is best for me."
You agree with her wholeheartedly, counter intuitive but this is what's necessary.
You agree with the divorce, you agree that there is no hope for the relationship, and you do it with a big smile on your face.
You remember that you have a pair in your crotch area, you remember that you're a man, and a strong man.
Appearing weak, needy, clingy, insecure, ("is it ok if I ask you a question?"), all of those things just re-inforce in her mind that you aren't the right man for her, she wants someone stronger, secure, confident - when is the last time you projected any of these qualities when you were around her.
I get it, you feel weak, lost, insecure, you want to be loved and she ain't loving you anymore.
She has all the power and you're just a spectator while she runs the show - do you feel that yet? Be honest.
How do you reclaim some of this power? How do you turn this around?
Start doing the opposite of everything you've been doing because up to this point, whatever you've been doing hasn't been working.
Again, counter-intuitive but it should be intuitive, stop doing what doesn't work, that at least will get you moving forward in the right direction again.
