Nicely put CG. Kev. I feel your pain. We all do. It sux but you both did this. You chose to ignore her cries for help until it was too late. We ALL did. That's why were here. Now the real question is are you going to let it defeat you or can you pick yourself up and move on.
Forget about the OM. It's between you and your w. It it's not him it would be some other guy that is trying to rescue the princess from the mean oger. Incase, you missed that. You are the oger and yes they all want to be rescued. Most want to rescue the other person right back. You need to really dig deep and make this about her and the girls. If you trully love her you would want her to be happy. What makes her happy is her choice not yours. You have to let go of the CONTROL and let her figure out for herself what makes her happy and in turn makes your daughters happy.
Stop preaching to her. You are not a prophet or a priest. That is judging whether you see it or not.
Let GO and Let GOD. Once and for all. You stuborn sonoffa...
