Hey Puppy, thanks for your input again. I assure you that I agree that there is no immediate change in how she feels, as she's been up front in and out of counseling. We are currently living as "friends" and I am not interracting with her very much even when she's initiating messages or conversations. I'm keeping it light and short. She's going out to a friends house on Friday to hang out, and I have plans on Saturday...keep going as is? I gotta buy the DB book, as I was just referred to this site. THANKS!