It looks like I haven't posted here in a while?? Why does my favorites list always show me as having already LOOKED at your thread??

Sorry about that Tal

Thank you for posting on my thread It seems like many of us were struggling with that R talk need for a while there.

You are right...the similarities between many of the H's is spooky. I wonder if that is just because they are MEN or is it because we are all involved with a "TYPE" that is prone toward this type of sitch?? H and I are both on our 3rd M and I have often wondered if there was something about us in particular that makes M difficult? I would like to think not since the break ups of each of our previous M's was completely different from our own sitch. One does wonder though

I like the method you use for R talks I think that is kind of what I emplyed with H this time. Lots of I statements sprinkled with affirmations and validations Dang. I wish I had read your thread sooner

Hope all is still going well with you and yours
Zoo

"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm." - Mahatma Gandhi