I took a deep breath and calmly explained, "You will treat me the way I say you will. You will NOT treat me like this. I have a college degree, I'm a mother and a well respected woman in this community. You go do what you have to do. But I will not be the punching bag or the effing fall guy here." I walked away.
I'm memorizing this. This is good. It's true I make mistakes and those mistakes infuriate my H. But so does he. I'm working on my mindset that I'm not to blame for everything.
