Went to MC this morning, which was interesting, and focused predominantly on my wife's feelings of no love for me and need for independence. Only second session, so mostly providing the MC with background.
We left MC said have a good day and left to go our separate ways. I am not sending her messages during the day unless I have to. However, she still sends them to me on occassion. She sent me a text a bit ago telling me that she bought me a new shirt and one for herself. It turns out that they are the same shirt in different sizes, so she jokes that we can look silly and wear them together (different colors...we've never been THAT couple!).
Ok, I am confused by this.
She still sounds wayward to me. It's very typical for wayward spouses to go to MC as a show, as in "see? I tried," and use most (if not all) of their MC time justifying their need for "space" and "independence," and re-writing their marital history.
Keep up with the dim stuff unless it's necessary, and give her a wide berth.
