Hi, do nothing, do not contact her at all. Let her say whatever she would like about you not being a gentleman...just ignore it.
I have been where you are. the only reason I talked to H during that time was if there was an emergency with our children. I would not call him for anything else! If I needed someone or something I had friends and family I could count on. I even had a friend I would call everytime I wanted to contact H.
The LRT worked for me. H told me two days after we had been in court for our D that he wanted to stay married. that was 6/07. our marriage is much better for it, he is a much better father and he was in MLC to a tee!!
Take care of you!
Nice to hear a success story. Ill keep doing what Ive been doing. The emotional roller coaster is one tough ride and I know I have a long way to go before I can get off. Sometimes I feel like im nuts because I still love my W after going feeling the way I do some nights.
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M-11y
D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
