It sounds like you are wanting your kids to be vindictive. And that you are wishing you could control your children's attitudes towards the OM.
Not looking for them to be vindictive. But they don't need to show someone respect that has robbed them of their family and helped keep them in a broken home. That OM deserves no respect from them.
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Also, if you do get divorced, remember that you may find someone else and will also maybe someday introduce the kids to that person.
I won't be looking for anyone else. I made my kids a promise that I would not do that to them.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
