The next time she asks you for something like that, before she gets into it cut her off.

Example:

W: I need you to take the kids two days earlier because I have a baby shower to go to.

You: Sorry, you agreed that when we corresponded it would only be about the children. As this doesn't pertain to them, you're going to have to hire a sitter.

W: What?! I'm going to get primary custody of the kids.

You: That is a matter for the lawyers to take care of. Please be aware that I have transcripts of all the conversations that show you wanting to leave the children with me all the time, so I would be careful about threatening primary custody. Have a nice trip.

Just like that.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER