But, since it seems that ya'll are heading for a D there is a chance one day your children will have a stepfather. And three grown adults working together to parent children is much better than three adults at odds w/one another causing continued strife for your children who are already very fragile.
I have to respectfully disagree here. It is not better for them to have someone acting as a father or step father that is not their father. It further damages them. I will not be working with this loser. My kids will know that he is trying to help keep their parents apart. I will not be expecting them to show him any respect at all.
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Your W is searching for *something* seeing how this is her 2nd OM (that we know of) in less than a year. How long are you going to be her fallback option for?
I don't consider myself a fall back option. I consider myself her covenant H til death do we part. Therefore, the door will stay open to reconciliation for as long as I live.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...