Well, what the heck? I tried to submit my previous post before you just updated, but it froze up. Whacky...
Anyway, just read your latest - I feel bad that your W seems so down and feels like she has to go. How do they get to the point when every choice they make is so clouded by an unrealisitc fog? I'm not making excuses for her bc I don't allow my H to get away with that same excuse. I just don't get. And it's sad that she doesn't feel better.
But the good news is - your attitude and outlook are great! The fact that you can see her POV is really big. IMO that is a major step forward and leaps and bounds in the right direction to your own happiness. I'm moving forward to - I still don't see my H's POV...but I'm slowly getting there.
Sounds like you are really detaching, but still standing for your marriage. Good job. : )
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
