These guys are dead on. Be strong.

If you want to be a better husband, give her what she's asking for. The mushy, romantic, frequent contact is for you. Not for her.

Patience. Slow down.

We all miss that stuff about our wives. We can relate. You're in the right place for that. It gets better when you can stop focusing on it though.

BTY...enough for today does NOT mean start all of this stuff again tomorrow. It means drop it. Leave me to work on myself for a while.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.