Yes we discussed it. W wrote that she felt hopelessness about our sexual relationship, at an intensity of 10/10.
In the final exercise, I wrote that I felt the passion for her, it is in me, but somehow this hadn't come out, and I don't know why.
This made her cry and say that she wanted to hit me.
We discussed that to some degree we've both kept each other at arm's length.
I've been taking Xanax regularly only recently.
I suppose that her viewpoint is that after 10 years, it's just that we're incompatible. As much as I can say that this is something we can work on, she says that she has ample evidence that this is the way it is.