Talitsa, I am thinking about trying this myself when H gets back from 3 weeks at work....what about scheduling one night a week or every couple of weeks that you two go out for dinner or order in and have a romantic dinner in...or just go for a walk together after dinner...whatever...but setting that time aside as together time...then during that time...talk about what is going right first, tell him how much you appreciate the things he is doing that you do appreciate, then asking for something you want/need...and finishing up with how happy you are that you are enjoying each other's company... Keeping it positive so that he doesn't perceive it as NAGGING him to work on relationship is my thought, I guess, for my sitch...might work for you, too! At the very least, having a specific "just us" time will insure that you are spending a little quality time together and that will tell you lots in itself about how the R is going....
