Actually you were ready to go out to dinner as long as you understood it was for your D.
I have a feeling that the OM info you had in your head was bubbling beneath the surface and when your W talked to you (regardless of what she said) you took it as an attack or a comparison to the OM.
That's why the C for you was supposed to be important. Try building your self-esteem for a change rather than relying everything on God. Are you still going to C?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
It is hard to focus today. I keep thinking about the major setback of this argument and how I probably did push my W even more into this loser's arms.
This guy better not have anything to do with my kids or I will go after full custody.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Yes, I am still going to C. I am not going to stop. I will see my C again this coming Tuesday.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Get back up on that horse! You have made a mistake, learn from it. You can do it. Sorry, first post ever but I've followed your sitch (and most everyone else's too) since the beginning. Now I just want to encourage you along with everyone else as well. God Bless!
I know I have to get back up on that horse. It just feels like that horse just ran off and I have to go chase it down and bring it back now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Besides that, it's a battle you probably can't win.
I talked to a L. Actually if she does introduce this loser to my kids, my chances of full custody go up over the 50% mark.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Kev the horse isn't yours anymore. You need to accept that. It's off grazing in another pasture. Maybe someday if you leave your gate open you will come outside one day and see it standing in your yard.
The horse isn't yours anymore. You need to accept that. It's off grazing in another pasture. Maybe someday if you leave your gate open you will come outside one day and see it standing in your yard.
Wow. What an analogy.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
