don't worry about the long timers leaving...there'll always be someone round to help you out when you need it. You do a fine job of figuring things out on your own most of the time to ya know!
Quote: Now when I try to initiate a conversation beyond the day-to-day mundane stuff, he weaves and dodges and changes the topic or shuts me down. That is the OLD pattern. That is a big part of how we got in trouble in the first place!
instead of worrying that he's not initiating r talks all the time now just try to look at it as the two of you making the transition comfortably. Don't look at his lack of saying anything as negative, try instead to look at it as he has nothing negative to say!
