We have a daughter who is not even 2 years old yet though and I don't want to disrupt her life. My wife does the majority of the care for her or she said that she would leave but it is just cheaper for me to. It's a tough spot to be in. I've hinted that maybe she should go, but it took a turn for the worst and triggered the talk about just another example of how selfish I am. She would go if I really pressed, but then I think it would really be over or the damage would be so high.
Would you still recommend I stay put even with the daughter and her taking care of her. I do agree that she is the one that wants to go though. I just don't want to cause an even bigger rift.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009
