That's a hard one to figure out because I'm like you, I think I can fix anything with enough effort. That isn't true with marriages.
Reminds me of a quote from 'The Red Green Show', "If it ain't broke, you're not trying hard enough."
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
